Couples sex therapy
The closeness you’re missing? It’s still possible.
At Creating Change LA, we offer specialized Couples Sex therapy for partners in Los Angeles and Beverly Hills looking to deepen their intimacy and resolve sexual challenges,. Our licensed therapists provide a safe, online environment to address issues such as erectile dysfunction, painful sex, or communication breakdowns using proven methods like the Gottman Method and Relational Life Therapy (RLT),.
Our approach to Couples Sex therapy focuses on open communication and curiosity, helping you and your partner navigate complex issues ranging from desire discrepancies to exploring open relationships or polyamory,. We understand that every relationship is unique, so we avoid one-size-fits-all narratives and instead use talk therapy and empowerment to help you achieve the connection you deserve,.
Couples sex therapy can help address the following questions:
- Do you worry that your partner never wants to have sex; or that your partner wants too much sex?
- Are you frustrated with your own or your partner’s sexual dysfunctions?
- Do you feel turned off by the way your partner approaches sex?
- Is there a lack of communication around sex and sexual wants, desires, and needs?
- Are you finding yourself feeling sexually unfulfilled?
- Did you recently have a child and are struggling to “get back on track” sexually?
- Was there an infidelity that has damaged your ability to feel sexual with your partner?
- Are you in a longterm relationship where you feel more like “roommates” than romantic partners?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, you and your partner could benefit from Couples Sex Therapy.
How is couples sex therapy different from regular couples therapy?
Basic couples therapy will address things like improving communication and managing expectations. Often times regular couples therapists will only look at surface issues. They won’t ask about what is going on in the bedroom. Couples Sex Therapy is similar to couples counseling, but as a CertifiedSex Therapist, I will ask about what is (or isn’t) happening in the bedroom. Couples Sex Therapy entails addressing sexual concerns head-on. By creating a healthy sexual connection in the relationship, you can begin to heal old wounds and create new, stronger bonds between partners.
As an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I work with couples of all sexual orientations, genders, and race. My work is informed by esteemed couples therapists such as David Schnarch, PhD, Drs John and Julie Gottman, Esther Perel, Phd, and Tammy Nelson, PhD. My approach includes a combination of sex education, addressing sexual ‘mismatches’, improving sexual communication, and on a deeper level, exploring how each partner uses sex to define themselves, and what that will mean for the partnership. On occasion, issues unrelated to sex may arise. This is both common and normal. As your Couples Sex Therapist, it is my job to help you navigate all of the concerns that are preventing you from being the couple you want to be.
Location:
Beverly Hills, CA
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Frequently Asked Questions
We help partners navigate a wide range of concerns including erectile dysfunction, painful sex such as vaginismus, and discrepancies in sexual desire. We also assist couples facing challenges related to arousal difficulties, orgasmic issues, and emotional disconnection that impacts physical intimacy.
Yes. We offer an affirming and nonjudgmental space for partners in or considering polyamorous or open relationships. We can help you navigate boundaries, jealousy, and communication to ensure all partners feel heard and respected within your unique relationship structure.
No. Our sessions consist entirely of talk therapy and educational interventions. We provide a safe and professional space for you to discuss your intimate life and relationship dynamics without any nudity or sexual activity occurring during the appointment.
We conduct all sessions via a secure telehealth platform which allows you and your partner to join from the comfort and privacy of your own home in Los Angeles or anywhere in California. This format can make it easier to discuss sensitive topics in a familiar environment.
Our therapists utilize evidence based modalities including the Gottman Method and Relational Life Therapy or RLT. These approaches help us identify negative interaction patterns and provide you with practical tools to improve communication and deepen your connection.
Absolutely. We understand that past trauma can significantly impact current relationships and sexual well being. We utilize trauma informed approaches like EMDR and Brainspotting to help individuals process past experiences so they can move forward in their relationships.
Desire discrepancy is one of the most common reasons couples seek support. We work with you to understand the underlying factors contributing to these differences and help you find ways to negotiate intimacy that feels satisfying and authentic for both partners.
No. While we certainly help couples navigating difficulties, you do not need to be in crisis to benefit from therapy. Many couples choose to work with us to proactively strengthen their bond, explore new aspects of their sexuality, or deepen their emotional intimacy.
Treatment usually begins with weekly sessions to establish momentum and address your immediate concerns. As you make progress toward your goals, we can discuss adjusting the frequency of meetings to best support your ongoing growth and relationship health.
The process begins with a 10 to 15 minute consultation call to ensure our practice is the right fit for your needs. If we determine we can help, we will schedule your first session to begin assessing your relationship history and establishing your goals for therapy.
At Creating Change LA, the focus is on providing a safe, nonjudgmental space for clients to explore their identities and improve their sexual and emotional well-being. The practice is deeply committed to inclusivity, offering LGBTQIA+ affirmative care and specialized support for sexual exploration and empowerment. By blending traditional talk therapy with mindfulness and curiosity, the staff helps clients overcome shame and build the confidence necessary to enjoy healthy, vibrant lives and authentic connections.
